Friday, January 15, 2010

I'm a stay at home mom! (Alternate title: What a positive spin!)

So, I'm laid off from my job. Funny thing is, things are busier here than this time last year. Blew me out of the water. Company meeting yesterday. I wouldn't have been shocked to be cut back another day, or even two, but I'm laid off. We all are. It's meant to be temporary, but what that means is anyone's guess. The hours that were cut last spring were meant to be temporary, too, but they never came back.

I get to come in a couple hours a week (like one or two) because companies don't function without the person who keeps the books at least making an appearance.

Daycare is being spectacular. I wanted to keep my son in a computer class that he is taking there, and they said if I stay outside the room while he takes it, then it won't be used toward his billable hours, so we can cut his hours down to the minimum plan just to cover the small amount of time I go to the office each week.

The upside is I get extra time with my son. I can volunteer more at school. With the blessing of Hubby's new job, it's not going to be a massive financial strain on our family.

I have never been laid off in my life. I have been working since age 14, and have never been more than a week without a job, and that includes during several moves to different states.

I know it will be okay, but for some reason I feel a little shaky (literally - my hands have been shaking - the weirdest thing).

There might not be many more posts from me here while I'm not working, but I'll still be checking email.

26 comments:

liz said...

Sending love and supportive thoughts.

Take time to grieve.

SoMi's Nilsa said...

Some way to start the new year, eh? From what I've seen of friends who have been in similar situations of unexpected employment ... most of them say it's the best thing that's happened to them. A lot of them re-evaluated their professional careers. Some of them took a necessary break from being paid to work. Many went on to find better jobs than they had before. I know it comes as little solace now. But, now that you've been given the opportunity, why not think about what you'd like to be doing, where you'd like to do it and seek out that next opportunity?!

CDP said...

I'm sending love and prayers, too. I'm very glad that you have your husband's new job so you're not too worried about money. As you know, I had the same thing happen when my old company closed down, and it turned out OK. Most of the time I was off was great, and hanging around with my sons was the best; I'm so glad I got to have that experience. Enjoy being at home for a bit; you'll find something else and things will fall into place.

togethertheycome said...

I feel for you! And I know that shaky feeling! Lots of prayers for you and your family. I will miss your frequent blog posts, for sure too! If you have questions about the uia or anything, feel free to email me!

amber said...

Ugh. At least you weren't fired, right? I got fired once, through no fault of my own (okay, it might have been a LITTLE bit my fault) and that sucked bigtime. I thought I was going to die. I shook for the whole afternoon.

It's good that you're looking on the bright side :)!

Evil Twin's Wife said...

I was laid off my first professional job out of college and I was a MESS! I know how much of a blow it is for you. {Hugs} and prayers headed your way.

-R- said...

I'm sorry. What a tough situation. The extra time with your son will be great, but I'm sorry that this happened.

Jess said...

Oh, how upsetting! I'd be feeling shaky too. I too know that everything will be OK, and thank goodness for your husband's new job. Still, I imagine right now things are feeling very tumultuous. You guys are in my thoughts!

Noelle said...

I wish I couldn't understand how that feels. I think the others already expressed what I would say, so let me tell you what I learned: do not, do not, do not, take a job selling insurance, real estate, or anything else where you're "paid" on commission. Better to wait for a real job to come through.

And it's kind of funny that no job=less blogging. I hope you don't disappear!

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Allie said...

So sorry to hear it! Thinking good thoughts for you. It's great that you're making sure to take stock of the good things that can happen. And how wonderful that your son's daycare is so fantastic! That is amazing!

lizgwiz said...

So sorry to hear it. I was laid off once, through no fault of my own. It was not a pleasant thing. I'd almost rather be fired--at least then you wouldn't feel so helpless.

I'm holding a good thought that this will turn out for the best!

Hillary said...

I'm sorry you're having to deal with this. I hope that everything sorts itself out and your positive thinking carries you through.

Sauntering Soul said...

So sorry to hear this. I don't know what else to say that others haven't said before me, but I hope there turns out to be positive stuff that comes from a sucky situation. Hang in there!

Michelle said...

I am so sorry 3C's!! I hope that you are hanging in there and handling this as well as you seem to be, I know it has to be hard. Are you planning on looking for something else?

flurrious said...

I'm so sorry to hear this. I hope this time it really is only temporary and that they'll bring you back soon.

-R- said...

I hope it's going well!

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tiff said...

I'm so sorry. It must be disconcerting to have the routine/expected/normal get upended. It's wonderful that your husband's new job is a financial blessing - sweet relief! But still, if you (like me) have been working all your life, this is a tough adjustment.

Hoping you find something wonderful to do with your unexpected time off.

kathi said...

I wish for whatever makes you happy and your family stable. I know the 'shaking hands'...

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Kirsten said...

Yikes! Been there. I was laid off from my last job almost 4 years ago (I hear ya re: the shakes). whether you see it coming or not -- it still stings! my lay-off proved to be a blessing in disguise, and i wish the same for you :)

Stefanie said...

Oh, man. I'm sorry. It's scary out there right now. But it sounds like you have the right attitude. Best to make the most of it. Good luck to you.